October 26, 2014               HEART TO HEART      … PASTOR’S HELP – MATE

October 26, 2014            HEART TO HEART      … PASTOR’S HELP – MATE

Pastor Saeed Abedini wrote this letter to his daughter for her 8th birthday, which was on September 12. This is the third birthday of Rebekka’s that Pastor Saeed has missed while he languishes in an Iranian prison for his faith.

My Dearest Rebekka Grace,    HAPPY 8th BIRTHDAY!

You are growing so fast and becoming more beautiful every day. I praise God for His faithfulness to me every day as I watch from a distance through the prison walls and see pictures and hear stories of how you are growing both spiritually and physically.

Oh how I long to see you.  I know that you question why you have prayed so many times for my return and yet I am not home yet. Now there is a big WHY In your mind you are asking: WHY Jesus isn’t answering your prayers and the prayers of all of the people around the world praying for my release and for me to be home with you and our family.     The answer to the WHY is WHO. WHO is in control? The LORD JESUS CHRIST is in control.  I desire for you to learn important lessons during these trying times. Lessons that you carry now and for the rest of your life. The answer to the WHY is WHO. The confusion of “WHY has all of this happened?” and “WHY your prayers are not answered yet” is resolved with understanding WHO is in control…LORD JESUS CHRIST, our GOD!

God is in control of the whole world and everything that is happening in it is for His good purpose, for His glory, and will be worked out for our good (Romans 8:28). Jesus allows me to be kept here for His glory. He is doing something inside each of us and also outside in the world. People die and suffer for their Christian faith all over the world and some may wonder why? But you should know the answer of WHY is WHO. It is for Jesus. He is worth the price and His  plan to be glorified through our lives.

Please read the book of Habakkuk. He had the same question as you. But see that the Lord answered him in Habakkuk 2:3, “for the vision is yet for the appointed time, wait for it.”   Mommy and I always had big desires to serve Jesus and had great vision to be used for His Kingdom and for His Glory. So today we pay a cost because God, who created us, called us to that, so I want you to know that the answer to all of your prayers is that God is in control, and He knows better than us what He is doing in our lives and all around the world.  Therefore declare as Daniel and his friends Shadrach, Meshach, and Abed-­‐Nego did in Daniel 3: 17-­‐18!…” If that is the case, our God whom we serve is able to deliver us from the burning fiery furnace, and He will deliver us from your hand, O king. 18 But if not, let it be known to you, O king, that we do not serve your gods, nor will we worship the gold image which you have set up.”…  learn and declare as Habakkuk did that even if we do not get the result that we are looking for, God is still good and we WILL praise His Holy Name.  Then my dear beloved daughter Rebekka Grace, I pray God will bring me back home soon. But if not, we will still sing together as Habakkuk did, HALLELUJAH, either separated by prison walls or together at home.

So, let Daddy hear you sing a loud Hallelujah that I can hear all the way here in the prison!  I am so proud of you my sweet courageous daughter. Glory to God forever,

Amen.        Kisses and Blessings,      Daddy

October 19, 2014,   Jane’s Heart to Heart    Pastor’s Help Mate

October 19, 2014,   Jane’s Heart to Heart    Pastor’s Help Mate

Amy Carmichael, an Irish missionary and writer who spent fifty-three years in south India without furlough was called to missions as a young woman, she responded joyfully first traveling to Japan, then China, Ceylon, and finally, India. There she founded the Dohnavur Fellowship, a work for children in moral danger.  Elizabeth Elliot shows how one woman offered up her singleness for God’s service and found true fulfillment. Elisabeth visited Dohnavur Compound in India where she had access to Amy’s correspondence and photographs.    Through research and interviews and forty years of reading her books,  she became intimately acquainted with this devoted soldier of God.  The result is a reverent biography, which traces the entire life of this missionary to India entitled: A Chance to Die, The Life and Legacy of Amy Carmichael.

On my little lap desk, hand painted in 1993, by our daughter-in-law, Lois Pierpont, I penned this poem (inside the cover) by Amy, who saved many from a life of slavery, whom she called her children.

Father, hear us, we are praying, Hear the words our hearts are saying;  We are praying for our children.

Keep them from the powers of evil, From the secret, hidden peril;  Father, hear us for our children.

From the whirlpool that would suck them,  From the treacherous quicksand, pluck them;  Father, hear us for our children.

From the worldling’s hollow gladness,  From the sting of faithless sadness,  Father, Father, keep our children.

Through life’s troubled waters steer them;  Through life’s bitter battle cheer them;  Father, Father, be Thou near them.

Read the language of our longing,  Read the wordless pleadings thronging,  Holy Father, for our children.

And wherever they may abide,  Lead them Home at eventide.



I decided today to talk to you about why I feel Christian Biblical Counseling is so important.  Having been in the ministry for over 50 years and while working in education and administration in our Christian schools  I decided to pursue additional training in the Christian counseling area to better equip myself to the task of counseling parents, children, friends and family.

My goal as a Christian counselor is to empower the counselee to live a life of enduring commitment to Christ, faithfulness to the Word of God,   moral integrity,  intellectual growth and a lasting contribution to  spreading the Gospel. My heart’s desire is to encourage and help those who want help in their walk with the Lord.

Commitment to Christ, as displayed by:

–Acceptance and acknowledgment of Christ as Lord and Savior

–Unreserved worship of God –Pursuit of Christlikeness in word, deed and attitude.

The first of these, knowing that  that person has accepted Christ as his or her own personal Saviour and Lord. Secondly, that that person is determined to worship God by faithful church attendance as a testimony to others and a means of outreach.   Thirdly, to live a life above reproach so that others watching will see Christ in the way he or she talks, behaves and responses to others.

Often the world view of things overlooks the spiritual while some “worldly authorities” are beginning to come to the realization that true counsel needs to also address the spiritual level and  even prayer.  Yet, if the counselor is not born again and does not know the Word of God it is impossible for true spiritual counsel to take place.   I Cor. 1:18   “For the preaching of the cross is to them that perish foolishness; but unto us which are saved it is the power of God.  19 For it is written, I will destroy the wisdom of the wise, and will bring to nothing the understanding of the prudent.  20 …hath not God made foolish the wisdom of this world? Chap.2:5 That your faith should not stand in the wisdom of men, but in the power of God.

This is why it is important for the Christian counselor to be as well informed as possible yet realizing that the information learned must be Scriptural…. In other words in harmony with the Word of God. Anything that does not clear that criteria is not truth and should not be used.

Often the unsaved and even the professing Christian resists receiving counsel  from  Christian   Counselors  such as their pastor or pastor’s wife because they do not want to make the necessary changes that becoming a Christian involves or as a Christian are not living the Christian life according to the Scriptures and don’t want to change, which often can be the reason for  the need for counsel.

It is also important for Christians to pray fervently for their fellow Christian when they have times of depression, discouragement or times when they are just not right with the Lord….  This is not a time for talking about them but praying that God will help them in their need.

I would truly like to encourage each of you ladies if there is a topic that you would like to have me cover in my Heart to Hearts, please send a short note to me and I will respond as soon as possible.  Your name will not be published. 

             You may read the comments on these topics at  jane@wpatch.com.

October 5, 2014         JANE’S HEART TO HEART    ….PASTOR’S HELPMATE



Reviveourhearts.com has published several 30-Day Challenges.   Here is the plan… Pray for your Pastor or Pastor’s Wife, Prayer for you Husband or your Wife, 30 Days of Gratitude ( just be thankful intentionally for 30 days). You can choose your own challenge.   Here we go…. Wow, I thought to myself, I think I will do this, because I considered myself a good and loving wife and I can do this.. Write it down or give that person notes.

Day One:

You can’t say anything negative about that person… To that person… or to anyone else, about that person.

You must say something that you admire or appreciate about that person every day!      OK let’s get started.

This is just the beginning of these very insightful challenges….

Well to tell you the truth I had good intentions when I did this and I proceeded with the idea that I was going to be able to change my husband into the ideal man by doing this and I will say that it definitely made a big difference in his response to me over time, but some years later I thought I would go through it again because I wanted to do better, but this time I realized that it was me who really had changed  my attitude and my thinking about him and yes, I needed to do even better.

You have heard of the expression “Stink’n Think’n “?  Well this was what I began to realize. I became convicted about my own need to change completely how I thought about him. I was doing a lot of negative thinking even though I had prayed that God would help me to be loving and kind. I realized that I had a critical spirit. This challenge helped me to see the positive things about my husband which were hidden behind my critical spirit making it hard for me to find things I really appreciated.

That person you choose could be your husband, your child, your parents, a neighbor,  a fellow Christian, your employer, a customer, fellow student, roommate, sister or brother. Greet that person in a positive way and think of positive things to say to encourage them during the day. Sometimes it will be hard. It might be wise to write out a few things before hand. Be honest and don’t flatter. If you blow it, Don’t give up.

The real issue is to change completely how we respond to the people with whom we interact. “Through love serve one another” Gal.5:13b. Of course we know that this is a pure Christian love with the motive of becoming more like Christ and more able to encourage someone else to grow in the Lord or come to faith in Christ.   Often we have  such a negative response to people and life in general, that it is no wonder that our outreach for Christ falls on deaf ears. Let’s set out today to encourage someone  with our life.    There are many practical things you can praise.

Eph. 4:29 “Let no corrupt  communication proceed out of your mouth,but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers.”

I would encourage you to go to reviveourhearts.com and look up those challenges and begin one and see what a difference it makes in your life, personally.




When my children were young they would often ask me what I wanted, as a Holiday or my Birthday was approaching, They often remind me that I said, “I want you to BE GOOD.” Truly, my hearts desire was for them to live for Christ and I don’t remember my exact words I used,  but I did make it clear to them that more important to me than gifts was that they live for the Lord.

A few weeks ago I heard one of the boys preaching on his church’s web site and he said, “Whenever we asked my mother what she wanted for mother’s day or her birthday she would always say she wanted us to ‘Be Good’.”  Now that is not exactly what I said…  Isn’t it interesting that they interpreted “obedience to God and being in the center of God’s will” as “Being Good”.  Praise the Lord they got the message.

Sometimes they would say, “Why don’t you ask for something easy”.  Our son Ken, recently called me for my birthday and said, “ Happy Birthday, Mom, I am being Good!!”  They all know that is my greatest heart’s desire, for myself and all of God’s children.


Why do I say that so often, have it on my little hand outs which I place in cards and letters and post it on my emails and website?   Because I need to continually remind myself of this important truth.  God says, “Take My yoke upon you and learn of Me.” This implies that knowing and following Christ is a process  of learning, making mistakes, correcting those mistakes, little by little, not perfection. The Lord says, “Come unto me,.. my yoke is easy and the burden is light.” Mt.11: 28-30.  The ultimate goal is to become more like God. Our faith is not an escape but a refuge in Christ. True faith in God and His grace is our great strength, not a crutch..

If you want REAL JOY you will follow these Scripture truths.

Deut. 6:5…”..And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thine heart, and  with all thy soul,  and with all thy might.     

Deut. 10:12,11:1,19:9, say,“..love the Lord thy God and walk ever in his ways..” 

Duet 30:6 “And the Lord thy God will circumcise thine heart, and the heart of thy seed, to love the Lord thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, that thou mayest live.” 

Mt.22:37 ”There is none other commandment greater than these.”; 

Mark 12:30 “ And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment.

God’s WORD is very clear that this should be our priority.

September 21, 2014     Jane’s Heart to Heart       …. Pastor’s Helpmate

It is Never Too Late to Change the course of your life….

Matthew 28: 18 Then Jesus came to them and said,“All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. 19 Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, bap-tizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,

Ken’s father gave His life to the Lord in his 50’s and began studying for the ministry,  was ordained, and served as a pastor for 17 years. He preached from a chair the Wednesday night before his weak heart gave out he following Wed.  He spent himself for His Saviour.

My brother-in-law and his wife in their retirement years  took their RV and gave their lives to the Lord for His service as volunteers for a Christian organization that built churches. His wife Bille fixed meals for the workers for  YEARS.  Then Bill managed the camp grounds for Wycliff Bible Translators  and Billie volunteered  in the office for a while and then did alterations for people for a donation to the mission. They sang together also at various meetings. (I had the privilege of donating my commercial sewing machines to Wycliff which she used). When she developed Alzheimer’s they had to return home where they still were faithful as lay-workers in their local church. While they were able they did what they could to win people to the Lord. 

My mother in her retirement years was a faithful caller in the nursing homes and also took the leadership of  A Women’s Bible class for several years until her heart became too weak. My sister took also began teaching a  Bible class and she also has a ministry of her own to nursing homes.  She is faithfully trying to win people to Christ and bring  them to a closer walk with Christ.

My younger adopted Brother had many shortcoming in his youth, and as an adult surrendered to Christ.  Today he is volunteering his life with the Christian Motorcycle Association seeking to win others to Christ.

It is never too late to serve the Lord and become involved in winning people to Christ… Are the things you do a true ministry for Christ?  Have you ever led someone to a saving knowledge of Christ?  Ask yourself …Are the things I do from day to day a service for the Lord. What will these things that I do count for in eternity?

Whatever it takes, learn to share the gospel and lead others to the saving knowledge of Christ before it is too late.

Go ye into all the world and teach the Gospel. Matt. 28:18-20.

This is the great commission to Christians to share the Gospel.

What is the Gospel?   That Christ died for our sins, was buried and rose again and is coming again.     Let’s not keep your faith a secret.

September 14, 2014    Jane’s Heart to Heart…. Pastor’s Helpmate

Have you ever considered what the Lord would have you to do with your life.  Have you ever considered giving your life to the Lord for some kind of Christian service?

You might say, ” I don’t know, I want to do this or that”.  Perhaps you should pray and ask the Lord to reveal to you what He would have you to do. Have you ever asked HIM? I wonder how long it has been since a person from this church has gone out from here to serve the Lord full time or even just said,” Lord, I am willing to serve you here at SLBC or in my work place or school while I am waiting on God’s leading in my life.” Today is the Day for full surrender!



The  first thing  a Christian should do is Surrender his or her life to the Lord and tell the Lord that you want to do what He wants you to do every day and every hour and then start pursuing what type of Christian service the Lord has for you. If that is not HIS choice for  you  He will shut the door.  When you do surrender to Him you will want to set out to obey Him in baptism and reading the Word and show Him you are determined  to follow Him, He is not going to show you the next step until you obey in the first step. He will then show you one step at a time what He has in store for you.

In Nancy DeMoss’s Devotion for Sept. 9, entitled, “King over All”   Acts 17:28 says “In Him we live and move and have our being.”   The concept of a Sovereign King who exercises absolute control over His subjects is one that our Western mind finds difficult for us to accept. We want to have a say in the matter, to vote for the leader of our choice.  We might say the thought of someone exercising control over us is insufferable and demeaning, but for the Christian the Lordship of Christ is a nonnegotiable reality. He is God. 

There is such a safety and security afforded us in yielding to that control. Do you relish or resist the thought of relinquishing control of every area of your life to God? Surrender is the KEY to great freedom and peace.

Children on the way to school in the morning do not have the privilege of voting whether Mom or 8 year old Suzie is in control of the minivan today. The fact that Mom doesn’t share the driving privileges with her preschooler does not make her a control freak, but rather a loving responsible authority, appropriately asserting her role over her children.

Adults sitting here,  have you ever asked the Lord what  He want you to do for Him. I know some are failing in health, but we can still maintain a testimony of Christ love to our families or caregivers and do what we can to show others what an obedient Christian looks like even through trials.

Those who are able, ask the Lord for a clear mind..not for yourself but for His glory and set out to serve him. It is never to late to surrender to HIM.  He will do the rest.

September 7, 2014       Jane’s Heart to Heart…. Pastor’s Helpmate

September 7, 2014 Jane’s Heart to Heart…. Pastor’s Helpmate

Let’s talk about Bible reading and the importance of preparing our hearts to focus on HIM and listen to God as we read HIS WORD and then obey it.

This is a neat Acrostic from Nancy DeMoss’s book, “ A Place of Quiet Rest” which will help us to give the Lord a response in PRAISE AND PRAYER.


A – doration
Worship God, Focus on His attributes
(holiness, mercy, majesty, omnipotence)
C – onfession
Agree with God about anything he has shown
You in His word that is not pleasing to HIM
Receive His forgiveness provided by HIS
sacrifice on the Cross
T – hanksgiving
Thank God for what He has done, His gifts and
How he speaks to you in the Word
S – upplication
Take your needs to Him for yourself
and for needs of others (intercession)
Ask for Grace to obey His Word.

Do not allow yourself to become encumbered by the mechanics as you journal. You may not always have an answer to all the questions we have in our little song…. What does it say? What does it mean? What is God saying to me? Or what does He want me to do?

The object is to get into the Word and get the Word into you. Then the words of Scripture will become indelibly written on your heart so that you will begin to know God intimately and reflect (like a light) His heart and ways to others. Then when we have been successful in our daily personal worship we will also desire to have a Godliness of Worship and prayer in our homes. Is your home devoted to God’s glory. In an article by A. W. Pink the “Herald of his Coming”, May 2014, he discusses the need for our homes Devoted to God’s glory using Abraham as being “an example as a father of the faithful and a friend of God.” Ge. 18:19 “For I know that he will command his children and his household after him, and they shall keep the way of the Lord, to do justice and judgment.”

If we are faithful in our own personal daily devotions we will also want to have family devotions. I Sam. 2:30 “Them that honor me I will honor.” In Jos. 24:15. Joshua said, “As for me and my house we will serve the Lord.” Time will not permit us to name David, Timothy, Lois and Eunice as examples of those who followed the Lord.

Let us sit down and divide up the hours of the week and how we spend them. Are we even tithing a 10th of our time in worship and service for our Lord.
Let us have a life of Praise and worship in our Homes.



Let me share this story from Elisabeth Elliot’s book, Trusting God in a Twisted World,  Elisabeth, her eighteen month old grandson Walter, and his father decided to go to one of those automatic car washes, which can be a bit scary on the first run-through, even for an adult.  She watched little Walter’s face as the car was drawn into the dark tunnel.  The water suddenly began to roar down over all four sides of the car, and his big eyes got bigger — but went immediately from the windows to the face of his father.  He was too small to understand what it was all about, and he’d had no explanation before hand, yet he knew his Daddy would take care of him.  The giant brushes began to close in, whirling and sloshing, and making a tremendous racket… His eyes darted again to the face of his father.  He was afraid but he didn’t cry. Then the rubber wheel banged down on the wind-shield and the hot air began to blast… Little Walter clung to one thing; he knew His father and he had never given him any reason not to trust him,…When the car finally broke out into sunshine, the little boy’s face broke into a big smile.  Everything was Okay; Daddy knew what he was doing after all.

Are you going through  times you might call, “ a car wash experience?” Like little Walter…. We need to trust the FATHER. We can say with JOY and confidence that He is a faithful God!   He will bring us through.

While living in Evanston, Illinois in 1956, just a few days after Ken and I were married, while I was listening to the WMBI Christian radio station from Moody Bible Institute, they announced the terrible news that five missionaries were killed by the Acua Indians to whom they were seeking to minister.  Elisabeth Elliot was the wife of Jim Elliot, one of those missionaries. As she suffered through this trial the Lord brought to her mind the promise from Isaiah 43: 1-2.  “I have called you by name, you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you, and through the rivers, they will not overwhelm you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned…. For I am the Lord your God”.  Just a few days later she and her little daughter, Valerie, returned to the mission field to minister to and win many of that tribe to Christ. Think of that! Elisabeth said. “Peace came, not by removal of suffering but through acceptance.”

No matter what dark tunnel we may have, Christ has been there. Faith is not just feeling good about God, but a conscious choice  to obey his Word when he says, “Trust Me”   “..It is by this that we know what love is: that Christ laid down His life for us.” John 3:16

He is the Father,   “Back of the Clouds the Sun is Always Shining.”     “Be Not Afraid”

August 24, 2014 Jane’s Heart to Heart…Pastor’s Helpmate

A few weeks ago Pastor pointed out a chapter in Warren Weirsbe’s book… Be Joyful, a chapter on Sacrifice. Let’s look at Phil.2:1-11   I will just read the first five verses.

Philippians 2 New International Version (NIV)  1. Therefore if you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any common sharing in the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind. Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus:

Wiersbe asks, “Is it costing you anything to be a Christian?” He states that submissiveness to God leads to JOY.  If what we do for the Lord does not really cost us anything it is worth nothing. Sometimes our sacrifice consists of suffering, sorrow and pain. This means giving Him a life of service, your finances, your children, your health. If we hold anything back that thing we  hold back is worthless. If it costs us nothing it is worth nothing.

When visiting Nathan & Jennifer last week she loaned me a book she just read by Jennie Allen entitled “anything”, She is basically saying the same thing…. “If you say, I love you, Lord. I want to serve you and I will do “anything“… but __________.” 

My childhood pastor always taught, that until we were willing to go  and do anything for Him (even the most dreaded place that we could imagine) that he would not use us right where we are.  Until we are willing to give our all to Him, what we hold back is worthless.

Mary,  the mother of our Lord willingly surrendered to the rejection of her fiance’, persecution from her community, the pressure of raising the Son of God, and ultimately the pain of watching Him die an excruciating and humiliating death. In Luke1:38 she said: “Let it be according to your Word.”   Mary said that she was wiling to do as the angel said and agreed with God that she was willing to do “anything”.

Look at the scrap book of your life.  Does “anything” stand out as a sacrifice for the Glory of God.  If there is “anything” in your life more significant or important  than God, it is a “false God”, it is an  “idol” and it has power over your life and it is stealing your JOY. Your life many consist of  many good things yet not a sacrifice for Christ.

it is never too late to change the course of the rest of your life.  Do we live more afraid of losing what we love here than of facing God in eternity, Solomon says in Ecccl. 1:14 “ I have seen all the things that are done under the sun; all of them are meaningless, a chasing after the wind.  Are you clinging to “anything”?